What Past Clients Say They Didn’t Expect From Their Boudoir Session | Oceanside, California Boudoir Photographer

If you’ve never done a boudoir session before, it can feel exciting… and totally nerve-wracking.


That’s normal. And honestly? That emotional rollercoaster is part of the magic.


Here’s a look at what you might feel at each stage—and why every part of it is okay.




Before: Nervous, curious, unsure


You might overthink what to wear.

You might doubt whether you’ll feel confident.

You might feel like you need to change something before you’re “ready.”


But here’s the thing: you don’t need to become someone else for this. You just need to be willing to show up as you. Every woman I’ve worked with has had these thoughts—and still walked away glowing.


Grace F. said,

“I found the experience to be very empowering. I felt instantly comfortable in Carrie Anne's presence, and her energy during the shoot was so encouraging and supportive! While I felt a slight bit nervous when the session began (I've never done anything like this before), any inhibitions quickly melted away, and the rest of the time flew by!”







During: Empowered, present, surprisingly relaxed



The nerves fade fast. I guide you every step of the way, from posing to mindset.

You’ll be amazed how quickly you feel supported, celebrated, and free to be yourself.



Many clients say:

“I thought I’d feel awkward. I actually had fun.”

“I didn’t expect to feel so safe and powerful.”



Rhea M. said,

“The day of the session she made me feel so comfortable, I almost forgot that I was in some sexy lingerie in front of an almost stranger. She guides you through all your poses and cracks jokes so I definitely had some photos of me laughing :) Her spirit is so warm and endearing, it felt like we had known each other for years.

Even though the gift was supposed to be a surprise for my partner, I ended up telling him about it once I got back from the shoot because it was just such a cool & empowering experience. And he was curious why I came home all glammed up!”









After: Emotional, proud, powerful

When you see your images, it can be a deeply emotional moment.

Not just because you look beautiful—but because you see yourself clearly. Without filters, without shame.



Some clients cry. Some dance. All feel changed. My point? This is more than a photoshoot.

It’s a full-circle moment. And you deserve every second of it.




Lauren S. said,

“I left her studio on a high of acceptance and a glow of confidence. I have carried this with me over the past month and have chosen daily to be kinder to the woman in the mirror. The INCREDIBLE photos are an added bonus!! So, don't wait. Book her now!”

 


Boudoir can be one of the most empowerng+ healing thing you do for yourself.



Carrie Anne Kelly
Portrait/Fashion Photographer. Philadelphia, PA.
carrieannekelly.com
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